Cost-of-living pressure and higher rates have genuinely changed how people approach a home loan conversation, compared to the easy borrowing environment of a few years ago. After 30 years in banking, I’ve watched this shift play out in real conversations. It changes how a lender should actually approach the sale — not through more pressure, but through a different kind of conversation entirely.
Decisions Take Longer Now, and That’s Not Hesitation
A client weighing a mortgage decision against a tighter household budget needs more time to work through the numbers. That’s different from a few years ago, when rates were low and borrowing capacity felt generous. Treating that extra time as reluctance to be overcome is a mistake. It’s actually a genuine, reasonable response to real financial pressure — and treating it as hesitation is the fastest way to lose trust in a conversation that was going fine.
Clients Are Comparing Harder, and That’s a Good Sign
Rate comparison used to be a five-minute afterthought for a lot of borrowers. In this environment, a genuinely engaged client has usually already looked at two or three options before they sit down with you. That’s not a threat to the conversation — it’s a client who understands what they’re signing up for. That’s exactly the outcome responsible lending is supposed to produce. The lenders who do best here can talk through a genuine comparison honestly. That includes admitting where a competitor’s offer might actually be reasonable, rather than deflecting the question.
Leading With Full Cost, Not Just the Headline Rate
In a tighter household budget environment, the gap between a headline rate and the actual repayment a client can genuinely sustain matters more than it used to. A client who signs up based on the advertised rate alone, without a clear picture of what happens if rates move again, is heading toward real stress later. The lender who walked them through that scenario honestly upfront is the one they’ll trust when it happens.
The Follow-Up Window Needs to Stretch
A client who needed one conversation to move forward two years ago might genuinely need three or four now. They’re working through a bigger financial decision against tighter household finances, spread over a longer period. Coaching a team to expect and plan for that longer window changes how the whole pipeline actually behaves. The alternative — treating every unclosed conversation after the first meeting as a lost opportunity — gets the diagnosis wrong.
The Bottom Line
None of this is about a new sales technique. It’s about recognising that the person across the desk is making a genuinely harder decision than they were a few years ago. The conversation needs to adjust in pace and honesty to match that reality, rather than forcing the old playbook onto a different environment.
Related Reading
- 30 Years of Coaching Lending Teams: What Actually Works
- Understanding Buyer Psychology: What 30 Years of Lending Conversations Taught Me
Written by Michael Wignall, who’s spent 30+ years in banking and home lending, including leading a team of home lenders across three regions of NSW.
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Written by Michael Wignall, Lending Area Manager with 30+ years in banking and home lending across the ACT, Illawarra, and Riverina. Got a question or an idea for a post? Get in touch.
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